Talk to any teacher and you’ll hear strong opinions on the topic of standardized testing. “It’s blatantly unfair!” opponents cry. “Teaching to the test ruins schools!” The proponents then chime in: “How else can we accurately measure large numbers of students? How do we ensure students applying to college are actually college-ready?”
I recently retired from a long and, I like to think, successful career. While raising a sizable family and working full time, I managed to squeeze in some volunteer work here and there, but I wasn’t able to volunteer as many hours as I would have if I were unconstrained by work and family. Now, however, I am constantly asked to do projects for organizations in the community, and I don’t know how to say no.
“You look so much better with your hair down than pulled back — can you change it before we see my friends?”
“I was so worried when you turned your phone off during that movie. Just keep it on vibrate, okay? I love you so much and need to always be able to reach you.”
I am a shomer Shabbos Jew who works in a small office with a non-Jewish boss. My boss is amazing: She lets me leave early on Fridays in the winter, and is really good about accommodating the 13 days I take off each year for Yom Tov. However, a young Jewish woman who was recently hired is taking early Fridays and all the holidays off as well — even though she is secular! It really annoys me; I feel like she is piggybacking on my religious observance to take these holidays off, while not actually observing them. I am afraid that if my boss finds out, she’ll think I am doing the same thing. What do I do?
In this issue, we begin our discussion of resumes by addressing two issues: What is a resume? How long should your resume be?
At the outset, it is important to note that a great resume is not an end in and of itself. It is a means to land an interview, the next stage in the process of landing a job.
Summarizing your life in only three minutes can be a daunting challenge unless you are well-prepared for it.
At a job interview, interviewers often open the conversation with: “Tell me about yourself.” Why are these four words so ubiquitous in interviews? A company wants to know whether you can meet its needs and whether you are a good fit for the company’s culture. On a deeper level, the company may want to discern whether you are a serious candidate; whether you have figured out how to “play the game.”
If you have one standard resume and use it to apply for diverse jobs, you’re wasting your time. Instead, it is now widely accepted that you must carefully customize your resume for each vacancy.
At a Job Assist workshop in 2013 (available at http://JobAssist.org/resources/resumes/), we presented an actual announcement for a nursing job and illustrated how a hypothetical candidate could analyze her suitability for the position and craft the appropriate resume for her application.
On the final night of Chanukah, I sat looking at the candles and was reminded of the purpose of the holiday — to express gratitude and praise for G-d for the miracles that He does for us. As with all reminders, the candles begged the question that they were there to answer: If we are a people known for gratitude (Yehudim), why do we need to be reminded to express it?
Please don’t say you stayed in the marriage for me, and that you were unhappy all these years, to make sure I was happy. That’s too much pressure for my small shoulders.
Don’t look at my bad qualities and say, “You’re just like your mother.” Where does that leave me? If I’m just like my mom and you can leave her, then who’s to say you won’t leave me too one day?
You divorced my father. I didn’t. Respect our relationship, and that I need him in my life.
I am very close friends with a married couple, “Sam” and “Rebecca.” Recently, Sam confided in me that he is using a dating app that rhymes with Hinder to meet up with other women on a regular basis. He says it doesn’t “mean anything,” and that he isn’t going to stop. What do I do? Should I tell Rebecca? Should I try to talk Sam out of doing what he’s doing? I am totally shocked and can’t stop thinking about it. Help!
The early decision/early action deadlines may have already passed for many colleges — many have Nov. 1 or Nov. 15 application deadlines for priority admission — but regular decision deadlines aren’t until December, January, or even February for most schools. That means there are still tons of opportunities to submit a memorable, poignant, or hilarious essay that gains you entry to the school of your dreams.
- Kvetch Overload
- A Match Made in Heaven
- Seeking Inspiration Beyond the High of the High Holidays
- Rabbi Yakov Horowitz: Providing Tools for Parents and Educators to Support At-Risk Youth
- SAT or ACT: The Final Frontier
- Introducing: Career Confidential
- Five Ways to Scare Off Your Date
- Fretting Over Family
- Loving Ourselves
- Standardized Test Soup for the Graduate School Soul